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DS220A.jpgI've shared a lot of love with my prostate massagers and stimulators over the years. As one of the leading straight male sex educators who's always been more than happy to talk about my adventures with butt play, without so much as a fleeting hesitation, you'd think that the companies who make these products would be fighting each other for a spot in the cafeteria at my table. Alas, this isn't how it's worked out at all. The leaders of this particular toy industry have often been short-sighted in their design and quite cowardly in their marketing. Sometimes it seems as though they simply don't understand their market and other times it is as if their public relations department is just completely incompetent.

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Trinity PlugI have always been wary of vibrating butt plugs, unsure as to whether or not I would enjoy vibration in my ass. Then Extreme Restraints sent me the Medium Trinity Silicone Vibrating Butt Plug and I was hooked! I tried the medium, but if you are looking for a beginning or more advanced butt plug, there are small and large sizes to suit your needs. The small, medium, and large plugs have widths of 1.25", 1.5", and 2" respectively. The tapered design allows for easy and comfortable insertion, slowly warming you up to the widest point. As this is made of ABS (a thermoplastic) and silicone, you'll want to use water-based lube with this plug. The plug is a little bit more stiff than other plugs that I have that are 100% silicone but I was okay with this, as I love metal and glass toys.

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Good Clean LoveGood Clean Love Body Candy, Vanilla Chai

Normally I am not a fan of flavored body topping type products. In my experience they tend to be sticky and taste totally artificial, often with a weird chemical aftertaste. So when I saw I would be reviewing a "body candy" from Good Clean Love I was less than excited. Luckily, this product was not sticky or icky tasting. This has to be the best flavored body product I have come across in a long time.

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dildoRarely do I crave a dildo. I often times think that if I want something up my ass, it shouldn't be a dildo. But times, they are a-changin', courtesy of the Real Deal Dildo made by Trinity Vibes. Upon initial inspection and first touch, it's easy to think that this dildo is made of cyber-skin - it's soft, flexible and slightly squishy. Trinity Vibes shied away from the cyber-skin fad and went with an incredibly soft plastic - ____________. The dildo is 7" long, with 5.5 insertable inches. The dildo does have a fake ball-sack so you don't need to worry about losing the toy deep within your gut. After giving this toy a good old-fashioned soap and water scrub, it was fairly odorless.

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Which Vibe?Kidder,

I just started listening to your podcast and also love Kidder and Jade's BTW podcast.

I was wondering what would be a good first time vibrator for my wife. I looked at the Hitachi Magic Wand and the Eroscillator online, but the nearest accessible outlet to the bed is about 6 feet away.

I'd appreciate any suggestions.


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Kidder Kaper

Kidder has been theorizing and writing about human sexuality since 1993, when he began work on his primary goal: "Teaching the world to be unafraid to enjoy sex."


Laura Rad

Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over seven years. You can find Laura every week chatting with the crew of the Sex is Fun Podcast.


Gay Rick

Gay Rick is an HIV Educator and Co-Host on the Sex is Fun podcast. He is also a certified Hepatitis C Educator.



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John Stark

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The Walrus is an avid SIF listener, married, and recently became a proud father. He spends his days working in IT, but has always been interested in pushing the boundaries of traditional and conservative thoughts sexually.


Cooper Beckett

Cooper Beckett's life isn't like other people's. When he's not writing or podcasting at Life on the Swingset, he's living it up with his wife Marilyn as evangelical swingers, spreading the good word that "sharing is caring."


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Beth is an English rose, happily married and happily swinging in the UK and abroad. She has a full-time vanilla career which she loves. Beth counts sex and naturism among her many extra-curricular passions in life.


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Mari Rose and her family live in Colorado, love life and do their best to maintain balance and sanity and in this crazy, sexy, beautiful world.



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