Kidder Stands Up! Hi there, I'm Kidder Kaper. I'm an author, podcaster, sex educator, blogger, yada, yada, and I think it is time that we radically change our approach to the way we view and deliver sex education. Traditionally, sex education has taken either a left or right turn down a two forked road. The left road usually concerns itself with medically accurate facts often abandoning the emotional components of sex to be experienced without guidance by its audience. The road on the right is often an single lane highway littered with lies, guided by morality toward an end goal of complete and total abstinence. Though I tend to choose the left road when given only two options, I find myself wondering what we want sex education to be and how we intend for it to improve the lives of its students.

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Safer SexLook, we all understand that sex is good, right? It makes us feel good, brings us closer to people, it relieves stress, gives us a reason to get in shape, it feels good, provides pleasure, and is tactilely enjoyable (yes, I know the last three are the same thing, but that's the MAIN reason we like it, right?). And we all understand that we should be safe about sex, right? I won't go listing all the good reasons for safe sex, because they aren't nearly as fun to think about. Safer Sex is like recycling, in that we pretend we don't mind the extra effort, and a lot of us pretend that we practice is more than we do, and practice it less than we know we should.

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rightkindoforgasm.jpgOh orgasms, who doesn't love them? Fast and sudden, slow and languid, shocking and violent. Any orgasm is a good orgasm, right? Perhaps not...

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DoughnutAnalingus. Tookus Lingus. Tossing a salad. Kissing the brown starfish.

All of these terms refer to one act - the rim job. The rim job can be used to prepare a partner for anal insertion - whether it be anal sex or toy play. It can also be done as a solitary act of pleasure. Although it may seem like a far-fetched, undesirable adventure for some, it can be a shocking delight that becomes a regular form of foreplay for others.

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Butt ToysI want to put stuff up my butt
Because it will feel good
I want to put stuff up my butt
I don't know if I should

Here's a thing I found right here!
Should I put it up my rear?
It is long and thin, filled with vitamin B
Carrots are so good for me!

No! Do not put a carrot up your butt
It might get lost in there!
Do not put a carrot up your butt
No produce in your derriere

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Kidder Kaper

Kidder has been theorizing and writing about human sexuality since 1993, when he began work on his primary goal: "Teaching the world to be unafraid to enjoy sex."


Laura Rad

Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over seven years. You can find Laura every week chatting with the crew of the Sex is Fun Podcast.


Gay Rick

Gay Rick is an HIV Educator and Co-Host on the Sex is Fun podcast. He is also a certified Hepatitis C Educator.



The in-house audio engineer.


John Stark

John writes a blog titled We Sleep Together. He is in his twenties, and has been in an open relationship for six and some years.



The Walrus is an avid SIF listener, married, and recently became a proud father. He spends his days working in IT, but has always been interested in pushing the boundaries of traditional and conservative thoughts sexually.


Cooper Beckett

Cooper Beckett's life isn't like other people's. When he's not writing or podcasting at Life on the Swingset, he's living it up with his wife Marilyn as evangelical swingers, spreading the good word that "sharing is caring."


Beth Swings

Beth is an English rose, happily married and happily swinging in the UK and abroad. She has a full-time vanilla career which she loves. Beth counts sex and naturism among her many extra-curricular passions in life.


Mari Rose

Mari Rose and her family live in Colorado, love life and do their best to maintain balance and sanity and in this crazy, sexy, beautiful world.



Lorax runs everything behind the scenes at Sex is Fun. If she's not maintaining the website, gathering articles, or directing art you can find her wakeboarding or snowboarding with her husband.