Hi there, I'm Kidder Kaper. I'm an author, podcaster, sex educator, blogger, yada, yada, and I think it is time that we radically change our approach to the way we view and deliver sex education. Traditionally, sex education has taken either a left or right turn down a two forked road. The left road usually concerns itself with medically accurate facts often abandoning the emotional components of sex to be experienced without guidance by its audience. The road on the right is often an single lane highway littered with lies, guided by morality toward an end goal of complete and total abstinence. Though I tend to choose the left road when given only two options, I find myself wondering what we want sex education to be and how we intend for it to improve the lives of its students.
Look, we all understand that sex is good, right? It makes us feel good, brings us closer to people, it relieves stress, gives us a reason to get in shape, it feels good, provides pleasure, and is tactilely enjoyable (yes, I know the last three are the same thing, but that's the MAIN reason we like it, right?). And we all understand that we should be safe about sex, right? I won't go listing all the good reasons for safe sex, because they aren't nearly as fun to think about. Safer Sex is like recycling, in that we pretend we don't mind the extra effort, and a lot of us pretend that we practice is more than we do, and practice it less than we know we should.
Oh orgasms, who doesn't love them? Fast and sudden, slow and languid, shocking and violent. Any orgasm is a good orgasm, right? Perhaps not...
Analingus. Tookus Lingus. Tossing a salad. Kissing the brown starfish.
I want to put stuff up my butt
