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Hi Kidder,
I've been listening to and enjoying the SiF podcast for a couple months. I wanted to let you know that it disappointed me to hear you call the woman from the naked truth church a "bitch" and a "cunt." As you are someone who is a sexuality educator and who speaks often about positive sexuality, I'm guessing you probably know the whole spiel about why those words are disrespectful in the context of women's sexuality. If you don't, let me know and I'd be happy to talk about it with you more. I'm just asking that you please be mindful of using bitch or cunt as a pejorative. (and, of course, if you're saying "I'm your bitch" or "I want to lick your cunt" those are completely ok--it's using those words as a put-down that I'm objecting to.) Another Offended Listener
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASEKidder Kaper is a published author and seasoned sex educator with an insanely popular weekly podcast and blog at sexisfun.net. As well known as his work has become in the adult section of the bookstore, he's heading into new territory where few of his ilk care to travel. He's taking a short hiatus from helping married couples build sexual intimacy and writing reviews on the latest in sex toy technology to focus on producing sex educational media for a significantly younger audience.
Hi there, I'm Kidder Kaper. I'm an author, podcaster, sex educator, blogger, yada, yada, and I think it is time that we radically change our approach to the way we view and deliver sex education. Traditionally, sex education has taken either a left or right turn down a two forked road. The left road usually concerns itself with medically accurate facts often abandoning the emotional components of sex to be experienced without guidance by its audience. The road on the right is often an single lane highway littered with lies, guided by morality toward an end goal of complete and total abstinence. Though I tend to choose the left road when given only two options, I find myself wondering what we want sex education to be and how we intend for it to improve the lives of its students.
Contributors
Kidder Kaper
kidder@sexisfun.net
Kidder has been theorizing and writing about human sexuality since 1993, when he began work on his primary goal: "Teaching the world to be unafraid to enjoy sex."
Laura Rad
laura@sexisfun.net
Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over seven years. You can find Laura every week chatting with the crew of the Sex is Fun Podcast.
Gay Rick
rick@sexisfun.net
Gay Rick is an HIV Educator and Co-Host on the Sex is Fun podcast. He is also a certified Hepatitis C Educator.
Coochie
coochie@sexisfun.net
The in-house audio engineer.
John Stark
JohnStarkWriting@gmail.com
John writes a blog titled We Sleep Together. He is in his twenties, and has been in an open relationship for six and some years.
Walrus
emailthewalrus@gmail.com
The Walrus is an avid SIF listener, married, and recently became a proud father. He spends his days working in IT, but has always been interested in pushing the boundaries of traditional and conservative thoughts sexually.
Cooper Beckett
cooper@lifeontheswingset.com
Cooper Beckett's life isn't like other people's. When he's not writing or podcasting at Life on the Swingset, he's living it up with his wife Marilyn as evangelical swingers, spreading the good word that "sharing is caring."
Beth Swings
bethswings@hotmail.com
Beth is an English rose, happily married and happily swinging in the UK and abroad. She has a full-time vanilla career which she loves. Beth counts sex and naturism among her many extra-curricular passions in life.
Mari Rose
marie@cakesandcuffs.com
Mari Rose and her family live in Colorado, love life and do their best to maintain balance and sanity and in this crazy, sexy, beautiful world.
Lorax
lorax@frivinc.com
Lorax runs everything behind the scenes at Sex is Fun. If she's not maintaining the website, gathering articles, or directing art you can find her wakeboarding or snowboarding with her husband.






