February 2011 Archives

dildoRarely do I crave a dildo. I often times think that if I want something up my ass, it shouldn't be a dildo. But times, they are a-changin', courtesy of the Real Deal Dildo made by Trinity Vibes. Upon initial inspection and first touch, it's easy to think that this dildo is made of cyber-skin - it's soft, flexible and slightly squishy. Trinity Vibes shied away from the cyber-skin fad and went with an incredibly soft plastic - ____________. The dildo is 7" long, with 5.5 insertable inches. The dildo does have a fake ball-sack so you don't need to worry about losing the toy deep within your gut. After giving this toy a good old-fashioned soap and water scrub, it was fairly odorless.

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HateMail Hi Kidder,

I've been listening to and enjoying the SiF podcast for a couple months. I wanted to let you know that it disappointed me to hear you call the woman from the naked truth church a "bitch" and a "cunt." As you are someone who is a sexuality educator and who speaks often about positive sexuality, I'm guessing you probably know the whole spiel about why those words are disrespectful in the context of women's sexuality. If you don't, let me know and I'd be happy to talk about it with you more. I'm just asking that you please be mindful of using bitch or cunt as a pejorative. (and, of course, if you're saying "I'm your bitch" or "I want to lick your cunt" those are completely ok--it's using those words as a put-down that I'm objecting to.) Another Offended Listener

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Kidder Kaper


Kidder has been theorizing and writing about human sexuality since 1993, when he began work on his primary goal: "Teaching the world to be unafraid to enjoy sex."


Laura Rad


Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over seven years. You can find Laura every week chatting with the crew of the Sex is Fun Podcast.


Gay Rick


Gay Rick is an HIV Educator and Co-Host on the Sex is Fun podcast. He is also a certified Hepatitis C Educator.




The in-house audio engineer.


John Stark


John writes a blog titled We Sleep Together. He is in his twenties, and has been in an open relationship for six and some years.




The Walrus is an avid SIF listener, married, and recently became a proud father. He spends his days working in IT, but has always been interested in pushing the boundaries of traditional and conservative thoughts sexually.


Cooper Beckett


Cooper Beckett's life isn't like other people's. When he's not writing or podcasting at Life on the Swingset, he's living it up with his wife Marilyn as evangelical swingers, spreading the good word that "sharing is caring."


Beth Swings


Beth is an English rose, happily married and happily swinging in the UK and abroad. She has a full-time vanilla career which she loves. Beth counts sex and naturism among her many extra-curricular passions in life.


Mari Rose


Mari Rose and her family live in Colorado, love life and do their best to maintain balance and sanity and in this crazy, sexy, beautiful world.




Lorax runs everything behind the scenes at Sex is Fun. If she's not maintaining the website, gathering articles, or directing art you can find her wakeboarding or snowboarding with her husband.