January 2011 Archives

legs_over_shoulders.jpg For fans of legs over-the-shoulders, balls-to-the-walls deep-dicking, it is hard to beat the Strict Leather Sling and Stirrups.

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50233_140317046003787_266343_n.jpg Today the illustrious Laura Berman who is the famed right-hand woman to Oprah's libidinous show topics and sex therapist from the famed Berman institute asked me the strangest question. She asked, "Would you be more willing to forgive your partner if they cheated with someone of the same sex? Of course this question was posted on her Facebook wall for everyone to add comments should they wish but I knew she wrote the question specifically for me. How do I know this to be the absolute truth? The answer is simple, I'm narcissistic.

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Kidder Kaper is a published author and seasoned sex educator with an insanely popular weekly podcast and blog at sexisfun.net. As well known as his work has become in the adult section of the bookstore, he's heading into new territory where few of his ilk care to travel. He's taking a short hiatus from helping married couples build sexual intimacy and writing reviews on the latest in sex toy technology to focus on producing sex educational media for a significantly younger audience.

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Which Vibe?Kidder,

I just started listening to your podcast and also love Kidder and Jade's BTW podcast.

I was wondering what would be a good first time vibrator for my wife. I looked at the Hitachi Magic Wand and the Eroscillator online, but the nearest accessible outlet to the bed is about 6 feet away.

I'd appreciate any suggestions.


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H_Wedge1.jpgFor those of you who have had the good taste to become a fan of the product reviews word-smithed by this particular reviewer know that I rarely grace a product with a review that doesn't bluntly point out the flaws, failures and shortcomings of each product I dare shove up my ass. Alas, I've found myself at a loss for words as I search for mean things to say after Jade and I gave the Liberator Heart-Shaped Wedge for a couple of test drives. I hate to say it as it breaks a longstanding tradition of Kidder-brand curmudgeon, but this may very well be most perfect sex product we've ever had the joy of bringing into our bed with us.

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Kidder Kaper


Kidder has been theorizing and writing about human sexuality since 1993, when he began work on his primary goal: "Teaching the world to be unafraid to enjoy sex."


Laura Rad


Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over seven years. You can find Laura every week chatting with the crew of the Sex is Fun Podcast.


Gay Rick


Gay Rick is an HIV Educator and Co-Host on the Sex is Fun podcast. He is also a certified Hepatitis C Educator.




The in-house audio engineer.


John Stark


John writes a blog titled We Sleep Together. He is in his twenties, and has been in an open relationship for six and some years.




The Walrus is an avid SIF listener, married, and recently became a proud father. He spends his days working in IT, but has always been interested in pushing the boundaries of traditional and conservative thoughts sexually.


Cooper Beckett


Cooper Beckett's life isn't like other people's. When he's not writing or podcasting at Life on the Swingset, he's living it up with his wife Marilyn as evangelical swingers, spreading the good word that "sharing is caring."


Beth Swings


Beth is an English rose, happily married and happily swinging in the UK and abroad. She has a full-time vanilla career which she loves. Beth counts sex and naturism among her many extra-curricular passions in life.


Mari Rose


Mari Rose and her family live in Colorado, love life and do their best to maintain balance and sanity and in this crazy, sexy, beautiful world.




Lorax runs everything behind the scenes at Sex is Fun. If she's not maintaining the website, gathering articles, or directing art you can find her wakeboarding or snowboarding with her husband.