April 2010 Archives

Bwarm Massage CandleWho doesn't love a massage? The feeling of relaxing into another person's touch, the opportunity to loosen up muscles that are causing you tension and pain, the blissful state of drool-inspiring mindlessness.

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HIV ProtectionHIV made an enormous impact on the world in the early 1980's. It scrounged up fear, stigma, and discrimination. It also brought out compassion, kindness and a drive to help fellow community members. As researches learned the routes of HIV transmission, the entire world had begun to politicize an infectious disease. As the world learned how to prevent HIV, there was a collective sigh of relief. To prevent becoming infected with HIV, people should not share needles and should use condoms for anal, vaginal, and oral sex. Pregnant women could take steps to reduce the chances of infecting their children. Screening became mandatory for the blood supply and for blood-products. It seemed it was only a matter of years until this disease was under control and the crisis ended.

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Rick in Jock StrapToday's cultures have an abundance of underwear fetish sites, blogs, and fashion shows. Why is underwear getting all of this attention? And are you missing the fun of underwear?

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openrel.jpgAs someone who has been in an open relationship for over six years, and who wrote a book about it, and who writes a blog about it, and who talks about it nearly all the time, I am often asked,"how does it work?" The short answer is, "it works well." The long answer is, well, really long. Currently, there is very little work involved in keeping our lives happy and sane and open to good people and fun times. All the real hard work of our open relationship came at the beginning in a series of conversations we had before anyone started touching anyone else's anything.

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biopic_walrus.jpgThe first time I even thought of the idea of penis enlargement, I was around 14 years old. I had found some advertisement in my father's porn stash that appeared to have a giant erect penis inside of a penis pump, with words that said "Fill her up to the hilt!" Looking at my average early teen penis, I felt very inadequate and hoped that I wasn't doomed to have a tiny penis. Little did I know then it was actually a picture of John Holmes. Like most guys, the only other erect penises other than my own that I saw were in pornography. Sixteen years later and after trying nearly everything other than surgery, my penis is considerably larger. That said, I've learned that penis size isn't nearly as important as I thought it was.

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Kidder Kaper


Kidder has been theorizing and writing about human sexuality since 1993, when he began work on his primary goal: "Teaching the world to be unafraid to enjoy sex."


Laura Rad


Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over seven years. You can find Laura every week chatting with the crew of the Sex is Fun Podcast.


Gay Rick


Gay Rick is an HIV Educator and Co-Host on the Sex is Fun podcast. He is also a certified Hepatitis C Educator.




The in-house audio engineer.


John Stark


John writes a blog titled We Sleep Together. He is in his twenties, and has been in an open relationship for six and some years.




The Walrus is an avid SIF listener, married, and recently became a proud father. He spends his days working in IT, but has always been interested in pushing the boundaries of traditional and conservative thoughts sexually.


Cooper Beckett


Cooper Beckett's life isn't like other people's. When he's not writing or podcasting at Life on the Swingset, he's living it up with his wife Marilyn as evangelical swingers, spreading the good word that "sharing is caring."


Beth Swings


Beth is an English rose, happily married and happily swinging in the UK and abroad. She has a full-time vanilla career which she loves. Beth counts sex and naturism among her many extra-curricular passions in life.


Mari Rose


Mari Rose and her family live in Colorado, love life and do their best to maintain balance and sanity and in this crazy, sexy, beautiful world.




Lorax runs everything behind the scenes at Sex is Fun. If she's not maintaining the website, gathering articles, or directing art you can find her wakeboarding or snowboarding with her husband.