February 2010 Archives

nipple_clamps.jpgWhen I opened the package that Extreme Restraints sent, I had moderate hopes for the product inside. The Nipple to Clit Tweezer Clamp Set looks rather unassuming, which could be a funny thing to say about a toy that is meant to be clamped to some of your most sensitive bits and has a substantial silver chain connecting it all together. Still, it can feel that once youʼve seen 20 to 30 sets of nipple clamps you have seen them all. "Ha!" I thought, "Just try to impress me, Nipple to Clit Tweezer Clamp Set!" Well, it turns out that it did.

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Talk to MeAs a sex educator often I spend more time talking about communication than about vibrators, condoms, and anatomical function put together. From what I have experienced, it seems that the biggest indicator of whether or not you will achieve your sexual and emotional desires is largely dependent on how good of a communicator you are. Take a look at the various sources relationship advice. It may be phrased differently but I guarantee you that the majority of advice out there boils down to three things: communication, talking more, and communication. So there it is, your magic bullet. That said, if it is that easy why are people still hesitant to be open and honest with each other about what they want and need?

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sex-worker.jpg"Do you know what time the 4B is supposed to come?" she asked. The woman waiting for the bus next to me was classically beautiful with a wide friendly smile. She sparked my curiosity right away. She had perfect hair and makeup, a stylish outfit, and she was carrying a baseball jersey with her. It too was perfect-pressed and on a hanger. We talked about the lateness of our busses. She mentioned that she might be late for her job as a bartender at a hot downtown restaurant and then asked me what it is that I do. I replied that I was a sex educator and I saw excitement flair behind her eyes. Here it comes, I thought. "That is so great! Well here is the thing about me..."

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housewives.jpgDespite my deep love for sexy stories and pictures, dirty comics are not something that I would think of buying for myself. That is why I am so happy that Eros Comix sent me two amazing publications from their Housewives series. I loved these comics immediately. They were so hot that I wanted to show all my friends. But there is no way I am lending them out to any of these friends because I am afraid that I won't get them back.

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Sex Toy ShoppingWalking into a sex toy shop for the first time can be an intimidating task. What if I pick something up to look at it and everyone looks at me? What if the store clerk laughs at me? What if I see something freaky and I trip and fall into a display of butt plugs? Who knows what will be in there on those shelves. Oh my god, do they even have shelves?

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Kidder Kaper


Kidder has been theorizing and writing about human sexuality since 1993, when he began work on his primary goal: "Teaching the world to be unafraid to enjoy sex."


Laura Rad


Laura Rad has been educating herself and others about sexuality for over seven years. You can find Laura every week chatting with the crew of the Sex is Fun Podcast.


Gay Rick


Gay Rick is an HIV Educator and Co-Host on the Sex is Fun podcast. He is also a certified Hepatitis C Educator.




The in-house audio engineer.


John Stark


John writes a blog titled We Sleep Together. He is in his twenties, and has been in an open relationship for six and some years.




The Walrus is an avid SIF listener, married, and recently became a proud father. He spends his days working in IT, but has always been interested in pushing the boundaries of traditional and conservative thoughts sexually.


Cooper Beckett


Cooper Beckett's life isn't like other people's. When he's not writing or podcasting at Life on the Swingset, he's living it up with his wife Marilyn as evangelical swingers, spreading the good word that "sharing is caring."


Beth Swings


Beth is an English rose, happily married and happily swinging in the UK and abroad. She has a full-time vanilla career which she loves. Beth counts sex and naturism among her many extra-curricular passions in life.


Mari Rose


Mari Rose and her family live in Colorado, love life and do their best to maintain balance and sanity and in this crazy, sexy, beautiful world.




Lorax runs everything behind the scenes at Sex is Fun. If she's not maintaining the website, gathering articles, or directing art you can find her wakeboarding or snowboarding with her husband.